February isn't always snowy in North Carolina. In fact, if we get any snow at all, it tends to be maybe once, and it is a dusting that lasts twenty four hours. Not so this year. This year we have had two weeks of snow and ice. We are constitutionally incapable of dealing with snow, and our entire state hangs a 'closed' sign in the window and hoards as much milk and bread as possible.
This means that schools get canceled, and shows cannot go forward. It also means I get to spend a few of my ever dwindling days with my children. Still, there are some things we can do to make sure that if Mother Nature renders our schedule nonfunctional, we are prepared. Here are things that Dave and I do.
1 - Make sure to keep some wiggle room in the schedule for March and April. That way, if you have to reschedule shows from the snowier months, you have some places to put the rescheduled shows.
2 - Be proactive with your shows. If you think a cancellation is on tap, call them a couple of days ahead of schedule and make some alternate plans. If there is school, great, if not, you have a fallback position you could take.
3 - Cancelation of a show might occur if the school needs the instructional time, and the administrators are unwilling to do the show because of that. How to proceed? Well, we have a nonrefundable deposit requirement for venues. We offer them the option of booking a show for the next year. If they decide to go that route, then we apply their deposit to the show. If they decide to forgo the show, then we just keep the deposit. We've had organizations who've asked if they get the deposit back, at which time we politely refer them to the words, 'nonrefundable' in the contract they signed.
4 - Schools can get wild and wiggly in this kind of weather and occasionally they change things without giving you adequate notice, or any notice that they've made an alteration. Be as flexible as you can, and realize they are frazzled.
5 - If you can, offer venues a range of days to choose from in your schedule.
6 - After you reschedule, send out an amended contract, or a new one so everyone is on board with the new plan.
Hmmm, it seems like I won't be going anywhere for a couple of days. I have shows out on the coast starting Monday morning, and i hope most of the ice will be gone by then.
Last night I was busy taking pictures of the snow in the dark. I enjoy that it makes it look as if you are photographing the universe.
Just before I went in for the night, I took one last picture. Wouldn't you know it, Old Man Winter photobombed me! That guy has some nerve.
"The British are coming!" Paul Revere rode alone to warn the whole of the countryside.
"I cannot tell a lie. T'was I who chopped down the cherry tree." George Washington was always truthful.
Betsy Ross sewed the very first American flag. Yes, see, a woman did something important to further the American revolution.
Sherman hated the south, that's why he burnt and destroyed so much of it.
What were the stories you learned in American history? What were the stories you internalized? What did you learn about World War II or Vietnam? Who was held up as a hero? Who was vilified? What is it you were taught about American values, and whether or not we lived up to those values?
Through much of human history, the bulk of the population were not capable of reading. Population wide education is a pretty recent development in society. Before we could read to ourselves, we had to have others tell us what was happening.
The griot, bard, poet, minstrel, folksinger, or jongleur had the job of keeping everyone informed about what was happening. Their tales were often dressed in poetry or little personal flares. People learned about the world beyond their villages by listening to the stories that were carried from place to place. The stories that pleased the population were told over and over again until they moved from mere tellings to ritual. The longer we tell the same story, the more we begin to believe it is true. We actually reinforce each other when it comes to these tales. In the end, they get added to the history of how we understand things.
The problem, of course, is that some of these stories have absolutely no bearing on the truth. They didn't happen entirely the way they were reported, and, some are made up of whole cloth.
How can we tell the difference between what is real and what is just story, and why does it matter anyway? If the stories make us feel good, and they aren't really hurting anything, why does it matter?
Well, I would like to put forward that it does matter because of a very simple, but profound truth that we overlook all of the time.
It matters what we hold up as history. It isn't enough that we only remember the shining examples of our triumphs. We must also face the darkness and the realities of those times when we, as a nation, faltered. If we cannot look into that yawning crater of failures, then we are going to head down the same road, and fall into the same craters.
This is an obvious sentiment, but it is not something that is easy to do.
Why? Why is it so hard to admit that we've made bad choices, been led by the nose by foolish or dangerous practices or ideas? Why?
Well, if we've done bad things, it suggests that the people who run our countries are just people.
No matter the country, the populace likes to tell grandiose stories about how it came to be.
You never hear a story like this:
Bob liked growing cabbages. He found a great place to grow cabbages and cleared some land. Other people followed, and before long, the area was big enough to need some kind of governance, and the people living there kind of fell into a system, and it eventually grew up into a town.
No, the stories are all about intrepid adventurers or travelers or men who couldn't lie or stout hearts who held off regiments with nothing more than hope and faith. That's the history we tell. That's sexy and it sells.
George Washington was a truthful man. He never lied, not once in his whole life because he was perfect, right? Really? Who honestly believes that? Does it make him less of a person because he might not have been honest every second of his life? No.
Did Paul Revere rouse the whole countryside by himself? No, he had help, and he was just one of at least three men who were responsible for that heroic ride. Does that take away from his accomplishments? No.
Something else I never learned was that after Paul Revere and his merry band roused the countryside, women and old men, who were the ones left home, were the citizen army who put the British on the run. Old farmers, and their wives were the 'army' which inflicted such damages on the redcoats. How come nobody tells that part of the tale? Well, maybe they do, but I never heard it in school.
Did Betsy Ross actually sew the American flag? No, probably not. In fact, she was never credited with this accomplishment in her lifetime. So, why bring this up at all? Is it because we needed a woman to have done something special in the founding? Aren't there plenty of women in history who actually did contribute? Why have we mythologized a non-event?
As for Sherman, his action had nothing to do with hating the south or being virulently anti-slavery. He burnt much of it to the ground to break it. It was in rebellion, and he meant to make sure it didn't rise right back up and start causing problems once more.
There are others out there telling true stories as well. Somehow, these stories never seem to get as much traction in our history books or rise to our notice as say, Betsy Ross. For instance, how many people know much about Ida B Wells?
February is black history month. A month where we fill in some of the history that somehow managed to get left out of the history books. We also have Hispanic history month and women's history month. We have these concentrated times because these groups are still underrepresented when we tell the history of America in our schools.
What is to be done about the fight we are waging to keep our history? There is only one thing to be done: Keep telling the stories of our history; the powerful ones, the truthful ones, the ones we turn from, the ones we embrace.
There are shameful things in our past, yes, and we need to answer to ourselves for them, but there are also spectacular successes we should celebrate. We need our history; it is the only thing that will keep us from failing our future.
There are storytellers out there telling our history in interesting and accessible ways. They are invited into schools to give a different picture of the world than the flat one students read about in books.
To those tellers who focus on true history, and not the surface kind we often get, I salute you.
The stories we tell matter. They shape how we feel about ourselves. The stories we refuse to tell because they might make us look bad, matter as well. Not hearing them robs us of our ability to grow and get better as a society.
Let us keep telling the stories that need to be heard. Let them be grounded in facts. Let us embrace them as part of who we have become. Even the difficult ones.
Going to land at 8:15 pm if all goes as planned instead of 7:35pm.
Sadly, the plane will land about fifteen minutes after my connecting flight starts boarding.
Not to worry, I could still maybe make my connecting flight before it takes off at 8:40pm.
Sure, it could happen. Sure..........wait a minute. I'll be right back.
Made a back-up reservation on the 10:30pm flight just in case because I refuse to spend the night in the Atlanta airport. If I miss my last flight, Carmen Deedy is going to see me again much sooner than she planned!
I really hate the Atlanta Airport.
At least I have tomorrow off and I may not get out of bed before noon.
Yeah, yeah, I know. I picked this life. Doesn't make it better right now.
